It's been over a year since my last update, but I have some good reasons for this!
The biggest news is that I'm now officially divorced. I walked out at the end of December, and after 10 very long drawn out months it was finalized at the beginning of this month. I should have left years earlier than I did, but I've been so much happier ever since. It's never a good sign when your marriage leaves you with PTSD, and I finally realized that while she has some major issues, my compassion was incomplete because it didn't include me. I've learned a lot and I'm really excited to see what the future has in store.
I plan on updating this site more often, as there's always things I read and find interesting that I want to remember for the future. This website isn't really for other users, it's mostly just for me to look back on in 10 years (this is a 15 year old website now for example) and remember what I was reading and thinking back then.